Locations
Local Sex Meets by City: Pick Where You Are
Local know-how for arranging a casual meet in your city, from Sydney to Cairns.
Right across the country
Every city works a little differently
Distances, late-night transport, the weather and the way a place is laid out all change how a casual meet gets arranged. Each city page covers the practical side, from public places to meet first to how to get home after, and names the public sexual health service nearest that city.
Members live in every state and territory, with the largest groups in New South Wales, Victoria and Queensland. Most members are 25 to 44.
The age bands of all members, shown as shares of everyone listed.
Victoria
- Melbourne
Daytime first-meet streets across inner Melbourne, getting home after midnight, and where to book a sexual health check.
Queensland
- Brisbane
Riverside first meets in Brisbane, Nightlink buses and cheap fares home, and where to book a sexual health check.
- Gold Coast
First-meet spots from Surfers to Burleigh, the all-night Friday and Saturday tram, Southport's sexual health clinic and how to meet across the border.
- Sunshine Coast
About 60 km of beach towns, markets for a first meet, getting around without a car and where to book an STI check.
- Cairns
Where a first meet works in Cairns, what the wet and stinger seasons change, how night buses run and how to arrange testing.
Western Australia
- Perth
A Sunday first-meet plan from river to sea, what the late trains do after dark, and where to get tested in Perth.
South Australia
- Adelaide
Short rides from the CBD to the beach, the city in numbers, festival weeks, night buses and where to get tested.
Australian Capital Territory
- Canberra
What a government town changes: the Census age profile, winter plans, roadworks, late light rail and where to get tested.
Somewhere smaller?
Not on the list?
Members also live in towns well away from the capitals, including in the Tamworth, Ballina, Nowra and Maroochydore areas. If your town has no page, start with sex near me. VIP members can widen the distance to the nearest city on this list, and anyone can agree to meet halfway.
Local, but not too local
Which Australian cities have members?
Members are spread across every state and territory, and they live in regional towns as well as the ten cities on this page, including Tamworth, Ballina, Nowra and Maroochydore. If you live in a smaller town, read the nearest city page and agree a halfway point in a public place.
Can other members see where I live?
No. Your profile shows the town or city nearest to you and nothing sharper than that: no address and no live location. A username stands in for your real name and email, and blocking is instant.
Should I meet in my own suburb?
Meeting a little way from home is a sensible first step. Choose a public place you know, arrive with your own way home and tell a friend where you will be. The guide to meeting for sex safely has a full checklist.